Dinner 14

Leftovers
I knew I was going to be gone for two weeks, so I scheduled two dinners in one week. You may notice that some of the ingredients are very similar to Dinner 13. I tried to switch them up but leftovers are leftovers.
Cabbage salad: It took me forever to get rid of just one cabbage. Here, I added the fruit and the juice of one grapefruit. I mixed the juice with a tablespoon of olive oil and 2 tablespoons of finely chopped ginger.

Even though I wasn't that excited about the food, I was very excited about the guest. I saw him in the observatory tower at the De Young Museum, and I actually asked him to dinner in a little note. He was still a random guy, but at least I wasn't up to the whims of whoever responds to my craigslist ads. This little stomachheart is branching out and trying new things.
Lemon mint salmon and sweet potato surprise: I braised the salmon on a cast iron skillet with salt and pepper, then added fresh mint and baked it in the oven for 15 minutes on 250. Squeeze lemon on it to serve. The surprise: Chop up a sweet potato and whatever other vegetables you want. I used onions, tomatoes, garlic, a jalapeno, and spinach. Saute everything then add the coconut milk and curry powder and chili powder to taste. I added fresh basil at the end and served it over brown rice.

Because I chose my guest, I had high expectations and was nervous that maybe he would think I was a weirdo. But we got along just fine. He's an artist and makes portraits with cross-stitching and black work. He's also apparently a bad cook and manages to bake everything wrong. He does love eating though, and he was really excited about all the items on the menu. The thing that got to me was that there were a lot of long awkward pauses in between topics. This is always a big anxiety when meeting new people, and I usually think that maybe we really don't have much in common and there's no point in hanging out. But then I realized that I shouldn't put that much pressure on it. I just met the guy. Even though it would be great to instantly have good conversation, not everyone is willing to put out (everything) on the first dinner. Sometimes we just have to take our time.Mission Minis: My guest was skeptical when I told him about the project and he wondered what it would be like. Would I force feed him 5 cakes? Just to live up to his fantasies I got a dozen fun-flavored cupcakes from Mission Minis. We ate them all.

The best part about this dinner is that we did take our time. Usually my guests politely give their thanks and head out the door shortly following dessert. But this week's guest didn't seem in any rush to leave. He stayed and we let the conversation take its natural course. Maybe he was into me or maybe not. Maybe I should have made a move or maybe not. I didn't feel any pressure because I hope to see him again. I'll just take my time.